I would say I am more average than not. If I was a building, my walls would be thick, and my roof would not leak. If I was a train, I would very predictably run on schedule. But as a person who is here, seeking to find a sense of belonging, someone to belong to..... What do say? Get to know me and see for yourself what your opinions are, because those are what matters most. It does not matter what others say or feel, If you do not feel it yourself to be truth then the words are nothing but hollow and meaningless.
How would you describe your ideal partner?
Idealism, is just that.... its a theory of what you think is better,an improvement over what you have had or have. What could be better, how could you change it........ Instead I would rather focus on how I could show and express how truely appreciative of the person who see's a future together. The happiness and devotion you receive from someone you love, is a reflection of the way you treat them and the sense of purpose you bring to their life.
It is always easier to blame the other person than to look in the mirror and see where you yourself may have done things differently. I do not wish to love the woman I live with. I wish to marry and love forever the woman I simply cannot live without.
If you knew the world was going to end in 30 days, what would you do?
I would spend every moment showing how I feel to those closest to me. Righting wrongs, making amends. Living those days much as I would hope to live everyday now.
If you had 10 million dollars to spare, what would you do with it?
I cannot imagine anything be so much harder to imagine than spare, or meaningless. Everything you earn or gain in life has some cost or value in emotion ,spirit, or wealth. If not it is wasted and meaningless effort........... But in this hypothecal situation I would look for a resource or a way to accomplish the most longterm and meaningful benefits for the people around me,
How often, and from whom do you ask advice?
I am never hesitant to ask for advice, a different view, or experience may not be the one for you. But it may also be something you would never have considered. I do not have to agree with an opinion to respect it. I o not always have to be right. I do not believe being first is always best.
What quality do you value most in the people of your gender?
Someone who remains true to character even in difficulty. I value conviction. The ability and willingness to stand for what you believe in.
What quality do you value most in the opposite sex?
plain and simply...integrity and devotion.
What is a recent prominent event in your life, and how has it affected you?
I have decided to quit wondering.......... is there someone out there for me..... I am here.
What is the best advice that you give to your children?
Be true to yourself, if you are not. You can never be true to another.
What has produced the biggest impression (shock) on you?
Finding success.... what was so hard to attain, so important that everything else was set aside. And realizing after all the work , the effort, the pain, It is meaningless without someone to share it with.
The last books that you read?
I have not set aside time for recreational reading in much time. Technical manuals, updates to codes and revisions require much reading time.
What are your goals now?
I wish to build a family based on love and togetherness, retire young with plenty to do together, to live life instead of watching through a foggy glass while others do, and feel what is hopefully out there waiting for me.
Whom do you admire?
those who are happiest and make the best of the worst....... who are the most composed in times of duress.
Do you have a lot of friends?
No I keep a very small and close nit group of associates...
What qualities do you dislike most in those of your gender?
I do not care for arrogance, disloyalty,and those who attempt to use intimidation as a resource for status
What qualities do you dislike most in the people of the opposite sex?
arrogance, insensitivity, and prejudice
What would you like to change in yourself?
I would hope to be more passive, non judgemental, and less critical of people in situations that are not my own.
What are your weaknesses?
I am stubborn. I am very often one tracked and driven to complete a task before setting it aside. I do not like to fail. I am sometimes very blunt with the truth, sometimes to the point of offensive.
What are your strengths ?
I am loyal. I am honest. I am a good provider. I give 100% to everything I do, or I do not do it.
How do friends view you?
the first to call in time of need, hard headed and not willing to accept change well.
How do acquaintances view you?
straight forward in business, they may not know where I am going, but they always know where I stand.
What are your favourite games?
horse shoes, chess, billards,
Who are your favourite writers and poets?
Larry McMurtry, W.E.B.Griffen, Dean Koontz, Tom Clancy, Louis Lamour
What kinds of music do you like?
Blues, Swing,"big band", counrty, rock, disco
What is your favourite food?
seafood.......... crab lobster oysters, and a good steak, I do like ethinc food aswell, both spicy and mild, I am not a picky eater I will try anything at least once.
What are your favourite films?
Lonesome Dove with robert duvall, phenominon with John Travolta, Forrest Gump with Tom hanks, The Postman and Dances With Wolves and Open Range with Kevin Costner, and Cinderella man with Russel crowe
What is your favourite fairy-tale?
I never was able to enjoy much of childhood full of stories and fairy tales...... but I would have to say snow-white
What is your favourite activity or hobby?
I enjoy the seclusion of wilderness and sea, the calm, the quiet, the serinity that only appreciation of the beauty this world has to offer has shown me.
What is your dream job?
I have the job of my dreams, Its my own corporation, run according to the standards , morals and enviroment that it is only in my hands to provide. A standard of excellence and shared appreciation by everyone who is part of it.
Tell us about your dream partner.
The person who is my everything, the reason I wake.... The lady who needs me as much as I TRUELY NEED HER
Where do you want to live?
I would someday like to build a large home of logs and stone, a fortress of the heart and a hearth of the soul.
Do I enjoy gardening?
I love gardening
Do I enjoy grocery shopping?
I really enjoy it
Do I enjoy other types of Shopping?
I don't mind it
Do I enjoy cooking?
I love it
How often do I like to go out?
Twice a week
Do I enjoy dining out?
I like it a lot
When it comes to TV
Opt for a movie
When it comes to money
I've been known to blow some cash but I know my limits
Describe myself at a party as a
Impartial observer
Keep my space
Always clean for company
Ideally I would like to live in a
cabin in the mountain
Preference for pets
Don't have but like Dogs, Fish, Birds
What type of television programs do I enjoy watching most?
Nature/wildlife, Films, Educational, Drama, Documentary, Current Affairs/Debates, Comedy, Action/Adventure
I enjoy spending free time
With family, Puttering in the garden, Visiting a museum or gallery, Catching up on household chores, Watching TV or a movie, Among friends, Playing on the computer, Browsing the Internet, Doing additional work
Activities that I enjoy
Boating/sailing, Camping, Hiking, Dancing, Walking, Water skiing
Sports that I enjoy watching and/or playing
Auto racing
Forms of entertainment that I enjoy
Dance clubs, Darts, Fine dining, Movies, Museum/arts, Classical music, Country music, Rock music, Surfing the web, Wine tasting